That’s my son drying out his laundry. He does his own laundry and so does my daughter. I have made a conscious decision to make them do this early on along with many other chores as these are things that can teach them stuff which can’t be taught and they might not learn otherwise. Things like: Patience: You know, in this fast…
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Let’s teach our children the importance of failure
Yes. That’s right. You read it right. Failure is so very important that it should be taught. I know it sounds weird because all we hear around us all the time is the importance of success. But, providing an environment to fail without shame is the most important thing we can give our children. I am a recovering perfectionist myself…
Continue ReadingIs my kid being honest?
Now, that’s a billion dollar question. You know, as parents we all want our children to be open and honest with us. And we also know it’s not something we can keep telling them repeatedly and expect it to happen. It needs a lot more than that to ensure that our children are able to freely communicate with us without…
Continue ReadingGoing on 13…
What a sea change this number brings… To see your little cuddly baby grow into a toddler and then a pre-schooler and finally now a teenager (yeah, that’s what I mean by 13 here) is not something you grow accustomed to easily. All other stages before this seem not quite alarming, but this number 13 sure makes you sit up…
Continue ReadingStop Doing Everything For Your Kids!
It’s not what you do for your children, but what you have taught them to do for themselves, that will make them successful human beings – Ann Landers Stop doing everything for your kids… Yes, you heard me right! Just stop…especially if your kids are tweens or teens. Some of you may find it strange to hear this, but believe…
Continue ReadingWhy I Hate “The 10 Things List” on Parenting
(Photo courtesy: Author’s own) Parenting is a joyous journey for all of us, no matter what our stories are. And having said that, parenting is also hard at times; not knowing if we are doing the right thing or not; and amidst all this confusion it doesn’t help to find news feeds like: “10 things you should never say to…
Continue ReadingQuality time vs Quantity time
t’s a term we modern parents have invented to justify the amount of time we spend with our kids. I for one don’t agree with the notion that kids need just quality time. I feel kids need quantity and a large quantity of your time. Just being there in the same room while you shell the peas and your little…
Continue ReadingEvery mom’s heart-ache
Ok, I have been feeling desolate for these past few weeks. You know, the feeling that every mother experiences at various stages in her parenting journey; the constant thought that whatever little quirks our kid is doing right now, may stop anytime; that you never know when it might be the last time they might be doing it. Things like…
Continue ReadingDoes questioning necessarily mean disobedience?
It’s important to allow children to question the norms no matter how controversial it may sound; Just because we never questioned our parents and took it up as stated doesn’t mean our kids need to follow suit. Only in an environment where children feel safe, secure and get unconditional love, will they push boundaries and have the courage to ask…
Continue ReadingGender sensitization begins at home…
Today morning while we were busy in the kitchen preparing breakfast alongside packing lunch for kids, my husband suddenly remembered something my nephew said to him a few days ago. It seems he noticed my husband working in the kitchen and remarked, “I have never seen my dad doing stuff in the kitchen, ever!” Although we had a hearty laugh…
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